Are You Genuine?

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Are You Genuine?

Did you know that…

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is critical to your performance at work?

People with high EQs make more annually than people with low EQs.

90% of top performers have high EQs, and a single-point increase in your EQ adds $1,300 to your salary!!

So, emotional intelligence is a way to focus your energy with tremendous results. But, if you are not genuine, emotional intelligence won’t do a thing for you!

Demonstration of emotional intelligence without emotions being authentic does not go a long way. Employees look up to leaders who not only motivate and encourage them through their words but respect those who walk the talk.

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The usual practice is to compare your behavior with someone you think is more genuine. Consider the hallmarks of genuine people and see how you stack up.

  • Honest:

They speak in a friendly, confident, and concise manner and people are more attracted to the right attitude than what or how many people they know. They are honest in their opinion and if required make unpopular choices which they are aware of.

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  • Not judgemental:

Genuine people are open-minded, which makes them approachable and interesting to others. Having a discussion with someone who forms an opinion about something and is not willing to listen to the views of the speaker may get really difficult.

It is crucial to have leaders who are open to ideas as this ensures approachability and also helps discuss ideas and thoughts.

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  • Respect for An Individual:

Genuine people treat everyone with respect -whether it is a diamond client or an intern, they are always polite and respectful.

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  • Trustworthy:

People get attracted to those who are genuine because they know they can trust them. Genuine people mean what they say, and if they make a commitment, they keep it.

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  • Keep Ego aside:

Genuine people don’t seek the limelight or try to take credit for other people’s accomplishments. They simply do what needs to be done and the laurels follow- effortlessly!

Are You Genuine?

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Genuineness is the quality of being honest, genuine, and sincere. A person can be natural in everything they say and do. If you have ever felt someone was insincere or artificial, you’ve experienced their lack of genuineness first-hand. A genuine person does not pretend to be someone they are not. They are authentic in their thoughts, words, and actions. An individual with good personal integrity will prove honesty and openness at all times, even when it’s difficult or unpleasant. Although most people aspire to live a life of genuineness and authenticity, many give away clues that reveal the opposite. How can you tell if someone is not being genuine? Read on for ten ways to know if someone is ungenuine:
 

You can’t trust what they say.

If someone is insincere and ungenuine, they will not be able to keep their confidence. If you trust someone with your secrets but then find out that person has been blabbing everyone, this is a clear sign that person is not genuine. Genuine people respect confidence and keep secrets. You should also be careful of people who promise things outside their control, such as “I’ll get this done by tomorrow.” If they are giving you empty promises, you can’t trust them. It would be best to be careful of people who use too many “I” statements. For example, “you should do this” is usually a sign of arrogance and a lack of genuineness. Instead, a genuinely wise person will use “you” statements to give advice. For example, “You should do this.” “I” statements put unnecessary pressure on you to do something you might not want to do and may also offend the person receiving the advice. “You” statements allow you to decide for yourself what to do and respect the other person’s feelings.
 

You feel bad after being around them.

If the people you spend time with make you feel bad about yourself, they are not genuine. The reason you feel bad may differ for everyone, but if someone’s ungenuine nature affects you, you need to acknowledge it. Either end the relationship or change yourself so you no longer feel that way. For example, they are not genuine if someone always puts others down and makes you feel bad about yourself. A genuinely wise person will lift you, not tear you down. Ungenuine people often rely on put-downs and insults to make themselves feel better. If someone’s negative and unkind words affect you, they are not genuine.
 

They are apologizing but have nothing to be sorry for.

When someone is ungenuine, they will apologize when they don’t need to. For example, if someone bumps into you and you say, “That’s okay,” but they immediately apologize anyway, they are not genuine. A genuinely wise person will not apologize for things that don’t need to be apologized for. They will also have the self-respect not to apologize to others. If someone apologizes for items that don’t need to be apologized for, especially if they are doing so, it’s a sign that they are ungenuine. They are trying to make themselves look better or, more important. Genuine people do not need to apologize for things that don’t must it.
 

They are seeking benefits for themselves.

Genuine people are usually selfless. They are also genuinely interested in the well-being of others. If someone talks about what they can get from you, whether it’s information, advice or money, or if they only ask you about what you need, they are not genuine. For example, if someone asks you, “What do you think about this book?” but immediately starts talking about themselves and how great the book is for them, they are not genuine. A genuinely wise person will ask you what you think about the book. They will also genuinely be interested in what you have to say.
 

They are self-promoting and boastful.

Genuine people do not have to boast about themselves all the time. If someone always emphasizes how great they are, they are not true. A wise person doesn’t have to tell others how important they are. Their actions and words will show it. For example, if someone is talking non-stop about their new job, new car, or new house and how wonderful they are for achieving these things, you can bet they are not genuine. A wise person will be humble, respectful, and modest. They will be confident and authentic.
 

Conclusion

When someone is ungenuine, you can feel it. You may not be able to put your finger on it, but you know something is wrong. A genuine person is honest, respectful, and admirable. You will feel better about yourself when you are around a natural person. You will also know that person is genuine because they will be the same person as everyone. They will not have a different persona for different people. If you suspect someone is not simple, you must be careful. These people are dangerous because they will do anything to get what they want. They do not care about the people they hurt along the way. You need to be careful if you feel like someone is being ungenuine with you. Protect yourself by not letting them in your life. So how can we tell if someone is genuine? It all comes down to how they treat us. If a person is simple, they will treat us with respect, kindness, and honesty.
Genuine people know who they are -hey are confident and comfortable. They are firmly grounded in reality, and they’re truly present in each moment and good listeners. They will give you their opinion even if it is not in your favor.
Farzi Ahmed
farzi.ahmed@tecsolsoftware.com
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